Episode 014: Lift While You Climb with R Wayne Martin
In this episode of ILLUMENATE, Chris sits down with R Wayne Martin, a platinum-selling music executive, podcast host, and mindset coach whose story is as transformative as the artists he’s helped rise to stardom. Known for mentoring musicians while championing mental wellness, Wayne shares his life journey from a conservative evangelical upbringing in the South during the Civil Rights era to the red carpets of the global music industry. His story is grounded in a powerful personal mission: to lift others as he climbs.
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Wayne opens up about the seismic moments that reshaped his worldview, from his first taste of creative community in high school theater to experiencing "frisson"—the chills of emotional music connection—that confirmed his calling. He recounts how mentorship in the Nashville music scene helped launch his meteoric rise, earning his first gold record at 21 and his first platinum award by 24. But beneath that professional success ran a current of personal struggle. Wayne candidly details his battle with treatment-resistant depression, which ultimately led him to undergo electroconvulsive therapy (ECT). This life-altering experience not only saved him but inspired him to record his story in a 28,000-word manuscript meant for his adopted daughters.
Beyond the music industry, Wayne discusses his ongoing evolution—both personal and spiritual. He talks about deconstructing his early belief systems, embracing Stoic and Buddhist philosophies, and finding power in the act of letting go. One of the episode’s most profound segments explores his redefinition of discipline and self-love, breaking it down into a progression from discipline to consistency, to ritual, and ultimately, habit—a framework he now teaches to his creative clients.
Throughout the conversation, Wayne emphasizes authenticity, intentionality, and resilience. Whether describing how he became an impromptu champion for Mary Chapin Carpenter at Columbia Records or reflecting on the emotional cost of being an empath in a demanding industry, Wayne’s insights are filled with hard-won wisdom. He encourages listeners to own their mindset, cherish their joy, and embrace the power of self-reflection as a path to growth. This episode is a masterclass in leading with heart while creating space for others to thrive.
You can learn more about and connect with this episode’s guest at: https://www.mthree.online/
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Such a powerful episode! 🙏🏻🔥